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Well, i've always been a bedwetter.
But, during daytime not so much, never great, not a lot of warning ever, and some urgency for sure my whole life, never walked past a bathroom and didnt go inand try, least not often did i go on by without trying that is.
But, when things went awry after some damage, i tried all the drs suggestions, did cath, did drugs, etc...nothing (except foley) would keep thing entirely dry so still needed to wear a diaper or some sorta pad at least, which sorta defeats the point of the drugs, as 1/2 helping doesnt help.
Now had too many UTI's with the caths, and not feeling then they would end up kidney infection before i knew it and that wasnt good for overall health.
SO, eventually i just went wth diapers and never looked back, it's not that big a deal to me to wear, especially that i'm in a wheelchair when out of the house for anything much of anything.
Wheelchair and then a diaper, that isnt that big a deal being the diaper, the wheelchair and not walkign is much bigger deal as is the other health issues, so for me it was not the biggest concern the diaper that is...being alive ranks much higher than wearing a diaper, and so does passing out, faling and getting hurt, and even just the whole not being able to walk more than 100 feet without the distinct possibility of running my face into the groud.
Now, i'm also not really an AB or DL per se, and dont/didnt look forward to it, but also never being out of diapers at night also make it so it was not a new experiance or something i havent dealt with for decades or something, and going 24/7 was from a logistics point of view not as big a deal to switch to, vs someone that is able bodied and not a bedwetter would experiance.
I get also the DL people having some supressed feelings about the whole thing as well, albeit i cant really talk to that aspect myself, i do undertand the fact that having that i going on and likely having guilt and/or repressed feelings about it would make it even harder.
Overall i consider i had it easier than a lot of people do that become IC, as i wa nevr dry at night that has never changed, and never being out of diapers, just adding on the daytime was not so much a change as going from nothing to now needing 24/7.
Not sure on the DL feeling myself, but i can get the jist of having something your hiding that then becomes somethign you have to face being also hard woudl add to the whole deal in the end too.
But, during daytime not so much, never great, not a lot of warning ever, and some urgency for sure my whole life, never walked past a bathroom and didnt go inand try, least not often did i go on by without trying that is.
But, when things went awry after some damage, i tried all the drs suggestions, did cath, did drugs, etc...nothing (except foley) would keep thing entirely dry so still needed to wear a diaper or some sorta pad at least, which sorta defeats the point of the drugs, as 1/2 helping doesnt help.
Now had too many UTI's with the caths, and not feeling then they would end up kidney infection before i knew it and that wasnt good for overall health.
SO, eventually i just went wth diapers and never looked back, it's not that big a deal to me to wear, especially that i'm in a wheelchair when out of the house for anything much of anything.
Wheelchair and then a diaper, that isnt that big a deal being the diaper, the wheelchair and not walkign is much bigger deal as is the other health issues, so for me it was not the biggest concern the diaper that is...being alive ranks much higher than wearing a diaper, and so does passing out, faling and getting hurt, and even just the whole not being able to walk more than 100 feet without the distinct possibility of running my face into the groud.
Now, i'm also not really an AB or DL per se, and dont/didnt look forward to it, but also never being out of diapers at night also make it so it was not a new experiance or something i havent dealt with for decades or something, and going 24/7 was from a logistics point of view not as big a deal to switch to, vs someone that is able bodied and not a bedwetter would experiance.
I get also the DL people having some supressed feelings about the whole thing as well, albeit i cant really talk to that aspect myself, i do undertand the fact that having that i going on and likely having guilt and/or repressed feelings about it would make it even harder.
Overall i consider i had it easier than a lot of people do that become IC, as i wa nevr dry at night that has never changed, and never being out of diapers, just adding on the daytime was not so much a change as going from nothing to now needing 24/7.
Not sure on the DL feeling myself, but i can get the jist of having something your hiding that then becomes somethign you have to face being also hard woudl add to the whole deal in the end too.