Guest viewing limit reached
  • You have reached the maximum number of guest views allowed
  • Please Log in (at the top right) or register (below) to continue enjoying ADISC.
blaincorrous
Reaction score
3,775

Profile posts Latest activity Postings Albums About

  • Today, I’m starting therapy. I let the therapist know I’m ABDL in the intake form. I’m fine talking about it, but I signaled acceptance. I’m sure we will have a good discussion about it anyway. I really want to spend time on other things.
    • Like
    Reactions: AliB, NewLeaf, Aby and 2 others
    A
    AliB
    Me too. And btw, blaincorrous..You’re lucky to have a kink-friendly therapist. How did you go about finding them? I admire your bravery to find one and be so open.
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    Honestly, I had to jump in with both feet with the therapist that was available since he had a very accommodating schedule, but I ended up with one who counsels on LGBTQ+ issues as well. I think it was an easy jump from one misunderstood marginalized group to mine. I’m certainly lucky in that regard. I know many therapists will try to cure us.
    A
    AliB
    I’m sure they would try to cure it out of some one, but that’s where I’d stop them and end it. Having been through failed family therapy starting at a young age, I’m reluctant to share my thoughts with any therapist who I get curing vibes from. Trauma can be worked though. Kinks, in my belief, are innately grown. Im glad you found who you can work with! I have yet to find a kink friendly therapist.
    I’m crazy lucky sometimes. I ordered a Lovense toy and they sent me the wrong one, which was on my wish list. By law, I’m entitled to keep the wrong item and demand the item I ordered, but I’ve let them know to see if they want to come to an understanding.
    • Thinking
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    I'm currently going back and forth with the company. They wanted to give a 20% refund or send back the unopened product. I took the 20% and tried the product. It was uncomfortable. I'm trying to get them to honor the original order or give a full refund. I'm pretty sure I'm in the right here. They should have fixed this in the first place rather than tempting me with the product I already had.
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    In the end, Lovense sent me the item I ordered and let me have the 20%. But they “deactivated” the item they sent me originally. I’m not angry. I’m more professionally intrigued they can do that, and it’s fair considering the circumstances.
    I’m so angry, I don’t feel like diapering up today.
    • Wow
    • Thinking
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen and Woncrinklz
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    You may read that as “I, myself, am too pissed to piss myself.”
    • Thinking
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    Woncrinklz
    Woncrinklz
    I've been there. Whatever it was that disrupted your flow, I hope it clears. But I've had days too twisted out of shape to want any happiness, too. I just wanted to punch a hole in something. Plinking works nice.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    I’m sure that would be fun, but all I have is this nerf gun. Maybe some darts would be nice…
    • Love
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    You know that feeling when you order the right sizes and they fit perfectly?

    Ordered a small Beta low rise plastic pant and an XL snap suit in the Rearz sale… and they both fit perfectly.

    Also, my first adult pacifier.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen and Woncrinklz
    Looks like I've been losing my sense of taste and smell over the last few days. But we aren't certain it's COVID. Home test negative, multiple times. Getting a clinical PCR tomorrow. Might just be my new Flonase...
    • Wow
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen and Woncrinklz
    BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    I can say for 100% sure that this non-COVID flu goin' 'round is quite worse than COVID. 😕🤒
    • Like
    Reactions: blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    Negative for COVID. I’ve just about got this beat, though. Just gotta keep it from descending to my lungs again.
    • Love
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    This non-COVID bug goin' 'round is hitting lungs harder than COVID, fer sure. 😲😷
    One of the best compliments I’ve gotten related to my diapers: “It’s actually not the most interesting thing about you.”

    They were referring to the way my brain works, as a ADHD neurodivergent.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    Woncrinklz
    Woncrinklz
    I can fairly say this is true. You have a very interesting mind, you!😊 Keep on keeping on....
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen and blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    Thanks @Wondercrinkee. You always do great things for my self-esteem. 😊
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen and Woncrinklz
    Woncrinklz
    Woncrinklz
    Oh, believe me! I'm NOT the "Buttering-up" type! I say it from the heart. Some humanoids have more than made me "Rambo" or whatever, given the sitch. I can be an ass for you...if you waaaant! I love swearing insults now and then, it's so comical. Honestly, I've come up with some dandies!:LOL:
    • Like
    Reactions: blaincorrous and BobbiSueEllen
    This isn’t an invitation to talk politics, but I’m completely enraged by the events of the past day. I want to take a mental health day, but I have too many people counting on me. At least I can work at home, masturbate, and float away in my diapers while I work. Doesn’t change a damn thing, but I can cope at least.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    Hemix
    Hemix
    Politics are necessary, if not here, they're something we have to deal with sooner or later.

    I'd like a day off too tho.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    Four condoms with half a small Bambino booster pad’s worth of SAP each, the SAP saturated until it takes up about half the condom, the air purged out of the upper half, the condom tied off at the top, and slathered in warming silicone lube. All that down the back of my diaper. It’s a no-smell, no-mess pseudo-mess success.
    • Thinking
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    This is one of my favorite ideas. When I sit on them, I can feel SAP sliding from one part of the condom to the other. I’ve got a creamy warming lube coming today to make the mess a little more messy,
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    Oh.

    Oh!

    God damn, this is a revelation…
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    Not having a good day. I’m feeling paralyzed with anxiety AND the car’s AC needs a new evap core, a fairly pricy fix due to having to remove a lot of shit to get at it.
    • Wow
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    The core in your heater box? Yikes!
    I’ve hit a tipping point where my kink side is overpowering my normal personality. I started splurging on diapers and sexy gay-oriented underwear over the past week. I’m just glowing with the identity I want to be today.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen, LePew and Deleted member 59082
    LePew
    LePew
    I though you posted previously that you were a cis-herero male?
    Nothing wrong with or gay about wearing gay underwear though. Now if you’re having gay sex WHILE wearing gay underwear then that’s another story 😝
    • Thinking
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    Don’t get me wrong. I identify as cishet male, but that broadcasts a certain vanilla-ness that really doesn’t describe me.
    • Thinking
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen and LePew
    Well, I’ve had my first experience with a catheter. I normally dissuade people from playing around with them, but I’ve felt compelled to answer some questions for myself. In the end, this will be a temporary thing that I’ll probably put away when my supplies run out, but I’m being sure to take all precautions to make sure it’s safe play. I have no desire for a UTI.
    • Wow
    • Like
    Reactions: Deleted member 60575 and BobbiSueEllen
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    Thank you for caring enough to speak up and for giving me more to think about.

    I always use the utmost care. I’m using sterile, individual lube packets, clean insertion, and not reusing. I always prioritize the highest levels of safety. My first experience was very much by the book, and it went exceedingly smoothly. I know how it goes right and will stop on anything that deviates from that.
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    I’m also taking a break after my first experience to make sure there’s no damage or infection. To be clear, I’m not experimenting with this on a whim, and I encourage others not to take any sort of extreme play lightly. Like most of my projects, I mull it over for months or years before forming an informed execution plan.
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    I’m going to add some punctuation to this thought for anyone who encounters it later: don’t do this.

    I haven’t hurt myself. I’m just not going to add any new information to the world on this subject. There are some extreme forms of play that you shouldn’t take advice from an Internet forum about. Err on the side of safety.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    Good morning, dear ADISCkies! I had a wonderful change of pace yesterday from my usual work in my home office. If you’re suffering from depression, try changing it up. I don't guarantee it will fix everything or anything, but it’s always an element in shaking myself free.
    • Like
    • Love
    Reactions: Cottontail and BobbiSueEllen
    DiaperedKhajiit
    DiaperedKhajiit
    This One finds keeping a handy ball of yarn within paws-reach to be a very effective destractor when bad moods try to strike! (Also, they're very handy when exploring complex dungeons, in finding One's way OUT of them again!)
    Good morning, ADISC! I hope you have a wonderful day. I’m thankful for this supportive community and I wish you all the best.
    • Love
    • Like
    Reactions: Deleted member 59082, BobbiSueEllen and PullupQueen
    fleckothefennec
    fleckothefennec
    I am having a wonderful day just finished my morning workout and a little meditation

    Love your profile picture

    " heyyyyy adora"
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    Yep, we loved the new series. Full disclosure, I’m cis hetero male, but I love everything that series stood for. It was freaking gorgeous.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    Howdy! Hope your day's been a great one! 🥳
    • Like
    Reactions: blaincorrous
    Got my shipping notification. New ABU samples incoming.
    • Love
    • Like
    Reactions: KrankyPants, chrischrischris, Angelapinks and 3 others
    I’ve been going through a process for a few years. I think about how my afterlife is lived in the memories of my friends and family. So, I’ve focused on my version of “storing up treasures in heaven”, and it’s caused my life to flourish in new, beautiful ways. Being generous and having an open heart has made me and those around me happier, and I encourage others to think about their lives in the same way.
    • Love
    Reactions: oreobaby89 and BobbiSueEllen
    Whew. My project just got delayed. Much less pressure. I’m feeling relieved.

    **checks diaper**

    Yes, very relieved…
    • Like
    Reactions: LePew, ComfyBoi, bluepigeon and 2 others
    Not that I have a problem with labels or this label or the people who labels apply to. I just feel like I’m robbed of a conversation if the entire explanation can be reduced to one word and needing to ask for a definition. I’m interested in the nuances of a person, not how they fit an archetype. It bugs me the way we use labels to say how we don’t fit the norm and then define a non-normal norm we do fit.
    • Like
    • Love
    Reactions: Milianna, chrischrischris and BobbiSueEllen
    After a week filled with family activities, I can finally cut loose and enjoy about four days without work, mostly without kids, and without minimally functional underwear.
    • Love
    • Haha
    Reactions: LePew, KrankyPants and BobbiSueEllen
    It’s hard to be supportive of LGBTQ people who say I, as a cis herero male, shouldn’t exist or am “just the worst”. I’ve heard this shit one too many times, and it diminishes my ability to be an ally.
    • Like
    Reactions: LilByte and BobbiSueEllen
    Milianna
    Milianna
    Speaking as a LGBT woman, I'm sorry that you feel alienated because of this fact. Straight cis people can very well be allies. And honestly, in order to get the progress we have gotten in the past years, the community had to garner support from people like you.

    For that, I thank all the allies.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    blaincorrous
    blaincorrous
    Thank you. I don’t want to discount the pain of someone saying things like that, but I don’t understand how they can’t see the destructive and ironic nature of those views.
    • Like
    Reactions: BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    My daughter is bi; she's had gay & lesbian people tell her to "make up [her] f***ing mind". How lame can people get?
    • Sad
    Reactions: blaincorrous
  • Loading…
  • Loading…
  • Loading…
  • Loading…
Back
Top