jenstheboy
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Hey everyone
So I met this sweet and kind girl in february this year who ive become very close and intimate with. We are not in a traditional relationship but in an open relationship sorta style. We are very comfortable with each other and can be honest with each other and talk about everything including sexuality.
So I opened up about my desire for diapers and I told her that I am a diaper lover and that diapers and ageplay turns me on and that im super scared to open up about it. I also told her that ive never opened up about it to anyone (which i havent) which she found super cute and honest.
She was very kind and understanding and was just like "oh is it just that? Thats so innocent you have nothing to worry about, I wont judge you" - which is the best feeling ever to hear from a significant other (and I encourage you all out there to give it a try and tell your significant other about this side of yourself!) It has been very nice for me to finally tell another person about this side of myself and to be met with nothing but love!
However - since I told her and she said it is no big deal, we have only briefly talked about it ever since. I have told her about binge-purge cycles and that im sometimes very into the diaper stuff and other times im not (as most of you might have tried yourself). And she has been very supportive and non-judgemental.
Since I told her, I thought that she would have a thousand of questions for me about it and I was ready to answer them - however, she hasn't asked me about it, why it turns me on, how it feels or well... anything
So my question for you guys is: Should I just let things be as it is right now where she accepts it and supports me but we dont really talk about it and she doesnt express any curiosity about the topic
Or should I ask her point blank if she would like to hear more about it and maybe participate?
I mean... open communication is best but im afraid to "push" her.
Thoughts are very appreciated.
Thank you!
So I met this sweet and kind girl in february this year who ive become very close and intimate with. We are not in a traditional relationship but in an open relationship sorta style. We are very comfortable with each other and can be honest with each other and talk about everything including sexuality.
So I opened up about my desire for diapers and I told her that I am a diaper lover and that diapers and ageplay turns me on and that im super scared to open up about it. I also told her that ive never opened up about it to anyone (which i havent) which she found super cute and honest.
She was very kind and understanding and was just like "oh is it just that? Thats so innocent you have nothing to worry about, I wont judge you" - which is the best feeling ever to hear from a significant other (and I encourage you all out there to give it a try and tell your significant other about this side of yourself!) It has been very nice for me to finally tell another person about this side of myself and to be met with nothing but love!
However - since I told her and she said it is no big deal, we have only briefly talked about it ever since. I have told her about binge-purge cycles and that im sometimes very into the diaper stuff and other times im not (as most of you might have tried yourself). And she has been very supportive and non-judgemental.
Since I told her, I thought that she would have a thousand of questions for me about it and I was ready to answer them - however, she hasn't asked me about it, why it turns me on, how it feels or well... anything
So my question for you guys is: Should I just let things be as it is right now where she accepts it and supports me but we dont really talk about it and she doesnt express any curiosity about the topic
Or should I ask her point blank if she would like to hear more about it and maybe participate?
I mean... open communication is best but im afraid to "push" her.
Thoughts are very appreciated.
Thank you!
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